En español | I know men and women who don't like something their partner does in bed. I also know men and women who do like — or imagine they would — something their partner isn't doing in bed. This explains why I'm constantly urging communication.
When each person in a relationship feels free to reveal his or her specific desires, both partners' ideas for sexual corrections — or additions — can be voiced without jeopardizing the union. Typically this is something basic: You're not getting kissed the way you want to, or your partner is treating your body parts too roughly, or mashing you into the mattress.
Some gay and bisexual men with recently diagnosed HIV infection are initially unable to identify high-risk behaviors that would explain their HIV infection.
We explored whether Web-based data collection could assist them in identifying the circumstances of their infection.
The HIV Seroconversion Study included a Web-based survey of gay and bisexual men with recently diagnosed HIV infection in Australia.
Free-text responses allowed men to provide more detailed and contextual information, whereas questions about the totality of their sexual behavior before diagnosis provided opportunities for men to describe their sexual risk behavior in general.
Overall, 84.0% indicated having engaged in condomless anal intercourse before their HIV diagnosis, including 71.8% in the receptive position.
" "I'd like to try some new ways of balancing your weight." Make it sound fun to try — something the two of you can innovate together. " With a little nerve and a lot of encouragement, you can get exactly what you want in bed. Show all kinds of appreciation: heightened arousal, green-light noises, grateful hugs and kisses. This will require asking your partner why he or she doesn't want to engage in the desired (by you) activity.