The best kind of confidence is like a classical virtue: it strikes the “golden mean” between self-doubt and arrogance, allowing a person to embody his or her positive traits without bragging about them.
This is partly because they have unusual features that may divide opinion, but also because men think there is less competition While Holly Willoughby (left) is often described as beautiful, Sarah Jessica Parker (right) tends to get a varied response.
Seriously, I am also guilty of being threatened by other women's beauty. I accompanied my brother Seth, an actor, to an audition for Pepsi in Los Angeles.
This audition was different then the many others I attended.
My problem is that it never leads to anything more than that. You may be insecure, but people have trouble believing it. When you’re constantly put on a pedestal, it’s hard to be in sync with “normal” people. That last one is just my observation about beautiful people and doesn’t necessarily apply to you.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but the date will go really well and things tend to either move really slow, I won’t hear from them after our date for a week or so, or not at all. You can come across as aloof even if you’re just shy. You’re given things by men for no reason (Free dinners! This is the same thing that afflicts celebrities, by the way. But the point is, by being singled out for being attractive, you’re never, ever considered “normal”…
I am 25 years old and have never been in a serious relationship.