And the most important thing is to find somebody who has compassion, who has a soul, because life isn’t easy. You have ups, you have downs, life is not a box of chocolates.But you want to be with somebody who’s going to get through the bad times as well as the good times and that you can’t determine off a piece of paper or a profile.I read you the best content on relationships, including dating, marriage, parenting, and more, with author permission.Think of Optimal Living Daily: Relationships as an audioblog or blogcast.
'When I first became single I was terrified,' she said.'I found my life going one way when I thought it would go another.'The stakes are higher when you're dating and breaking up in your 30s.She is also set to get married to Cristian Arratia, 36, who she met in 2015 via a dating app.* Try not to over-analyse a text message; see it as a conversation rather than an essay on a subject.Big thank you to everyone who took part in the Facebook live Valentines special.It was so much fun to host and ‘talk’ with you virtually.One of the reasons I write about relationship advice is because so much of the blogs on marriage give shit advice.