As Ridley points out, “in our world of modern dating, it’s so common for 'singles' to be dating multiple people that often we assume they aren't exclusive until that conversation happens.” Therefore, it’s easy for us to miss important warning signs, even when they’re staring us right in the face. For example, they don’t pick up their phone (cell or otherwise) when you call before work hours or after works hours when they would be home.Concerned that the person you’re dating might be married? Ridley, here are some sure-fire warning signs to watch out for. Alternatively, they only call you at a certain time of day or location (e.g.If you start interacting with someone who doesn't have a photo online, request them to add a photo and let them know you prefer not to communicate with them unless they put up a photo.
“Nothing but texts happened for almost a year, and honestly I wasn't putting that much energy into it or I would have Googled him, which is how I ultimately found out. ” Considering that we’re living in a day and age where everything is online, it might seem unfathomable that people are able to have affairs without anyone being the wiser, however it’s more common than you think. Anne Ridley is a psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and relationship and intimacy expert. “I understand there are some people who only have cell phones these days, so this is not a sure sign, though it is a sign to be mindful of, especially coupled with the other warning signs,” she said.Of course they can always put up fake photos but they usually do not have a photo at all.In fact, as a general rule, it is best to be suspicious of profiles without photos.Few ladies have been in a kind of relationship with a man they are head over heels in-love with but when there's an opportunity to take it a step further, he just holds back. He may just have a secret he's hiding or most times he could just be married and doesn't want you to know.As a divorce attorney and a past serial dater, I have had the unique opportunity to view every facet of relationships between men and women from beginning to end.Like most men and women, I have entered relationships with the utmost optimism only to experience it fall apart along the way. In my last article, I touched on infidelity as a major cause of divorce.