Slightly higher value females may become fuck-buddies (meet up for sex on an ongoing basis) If the woman is somewhat higher value (fun and/or decently hot), he may desire a friends with benefits arrangement (meet up for sex and nonsexual things, but avoid exclusivity and a deep emotional connection.)Generally speaking, most higher value dudes (alphas) are going to resist committing to women because they have options.
Their abundance mentality gives them the freedom of being able to wait to commit until a very high value woman comes along.
What about girls who insist on having a gay friend?
Have you ever noticed your girlfriend or wife spending hours on the phone with some bloke you know she would never sleep with, but it perplexes you anyway?
What about those guys who never call after you’ve borne your soul out to them telling them how you feel or after you’ve given them the best sex ever?
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He taught that women were attracted to men with resources (so that they could protect them and their offspring) and that men were attracted to women with the characteristics of fertility (who would be more likely to bear multiple children.) While this theory seems to have worked well in our society, it certainly isnâ€™t the only factor affecting attractiveness.
Ladder theory makes unevaluated claims about how heterosexual men and women evaluate potential opposite-sex sexual partners and friends.
While different people have different preferences, physical attractiveness is something that is very intuitive.
My biopsychology professor in college claimed that attractiveness could be explained biologically by a personâ€™s interest in preserving their DNA.
This is why they resist committing to one-night stands, fuckbuddies, or friends with benefits…
they’re just not good enough relative to the caliber of women that one particular dude can attract.
The Ladder Theory, or "LT," is a pseudoscientific explanation of the ways in which men and women evaluate members of the opposite sex upon first impressions.